As we observe and process the horrific school shooting that
occurred yesterday, an enormous amount of emotion and grief is unleashed into
the collective.
We feel overwhelmed with
sadness and anger and our minds can quickly move into imagining that event
occurring in our own lives; the anguish of receiving “that” phone call or being
in that situation.
I would suggest that we try not to go there; with our minds
or our emotions. For whatever reason
yesterday, you did not receive the call.
You were not at the school to witness the events. You were not shot. You were not the shooter.
You could indeed have been any one of those people.
And so how do we understand the why and the how of such
things? My understanding of karma helps
me to see the cosmic dance in a different way, and it helps me. To think – to believe – that this was a
lesson that these souls chose to learn.
That their purpose in this existence was lived out either before or at
this particular event. Some souls
complete their journey here after two minutes; some take two years; others,
twenty or fifty or eighty; our concept of time and assumption that we are allotted
an 70+ period of time here are very Earthly concepts.
Mourn not for the lost potential of those children and
adults; direct your attention to sending light to those left behind. When our loved ones move on/transition/die –
however you perceive it – it is often ourselves that we cry for. For the gaping hole in the fabric of our
existence that once was this person and the relationship.
My grandmother buried two children and would proffer the
idea that Hell was indeed here on Earth.
Death is indeed the only guarantee upon birth; but there is much more
pain when it is not in the natural order of things.
What to do? How to
find peace?
Turn off your television; stop reading through the scroll of
photos from the internet. Life is for
the living, and we are all absolutely and completely connected; the repetition numbs
us – do not become numb.
Spend time doing the things that matter to you with the
people that matter to you. Pour that
emotionality into service. If you have
children, spend time with them and love them the best you can.
Volunteer at a local school to tutor or read to the children;
if you take a moment to truly look around your community you will find so many
children living with poverty, abuse, emotional and physical neglect that it
will shock you – let it shock you into action.
Listen to the people around you; some are crying out for a shoulder
to lean on; for someone to listen; our society has become so disconnected. Many, MANY people are on medications to
relieve their sadness and despair. Until
everyone feels that connection and knows that they are loved, respected and
heard, this will continue.
Do whatever it is for yourself that keeps you in the light,
and of the light. And then, never
hesitate to share that light with those around you.
To honor the dead, be one who is truly LIVING.
Shanti,
Jill